To have sex longer, do you flex the kegel muscles to stop cumming or relax your muscles?

I know this question might sound stupid to most people, but I just wasn’t sure how I am suppose to hold it in.

I think relaxing is the best way to keep it longer. it is easily observed that when u are wanking, and you force ur body to cumm…all the musles around your bum and your thighs are instinctively flexed. therefore, relaxing these muscles will keep u longer

In addidion…the other way to keep longer is stoping for while, say 5 seconds, take the snake out of the hole, shake it, hit it on the bum, listen to sound and deep breath (as well as give a short break to your partner before starting a new journey, new hardcore :P )…it will getting harder without flexing any muscle.

10 Responses

  1. sagar Says:

    masturbate 2 times before you have sex, so you can take more time to split out
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  2. ?»?•J???€•?«? Says:

    You flex the muscles. Relaxing lets to flow out
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    Me =D

  3. John J Says:

    If you want to have sex longer, try using condoms. Those numbing ones help.
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  4. dextrocity Says:

    the best way to hold it is, think of something else other than what you’re already doing. think of work, something problematic and you’ll take you’re mind out of it.
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  5. MikeJones Says:

    Flexing your PC muscle makes you come faster.

    The reason to strengthen your PC is so you have more sence of when its contracting and when it isnt.

    when ur doin a girl DONT contract/flex it, that makes you come faster.
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  6. Fresh Prince Says:

    when you pee, and urine stops, and you pump to push excess urine out, thats the kegel muscle you are using.

    i think relaxing it will make you cumm faster. if you work out your kegel muscle, your kegel muscle will be strong enough to hold in your cumm.
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  7. duckinhimer Says:

    flex them and do it like 100 times a day to build them muscles
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  8. Suresh M Says:

    It is a tack. Learn it.
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  9. Victor Says:

    I think relaxing is the best way to keep it longer. it is easily observed that when u are wanking, and you force ur body to cumm…all the musles around your bum and your thighs are instinctively flexed. therefore, relaxing these muscles will keep u longer

    In addidion…the other way to keep longer is stoping for while, say 5 seconds, take the snake out of the hole, shake it, hit it on the bum, listen to sound and deep breath (as well as give a short break to your partner before starting a new journey, new hardcore :P )…it will getting harder without flexing any muscle.
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  10. Sammy J Says:

    Abstain for a week to charge your battery.
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